Monday, January 10, 2022

Memories: Waldorf Kindergarten

When we were looking for schools for our son, the local school gave us a very bad impression.  Remember this was before all the school tragedies - but the school had signs saying that parents were not allowed on campus, not just that they were to sign in thru the office, but they were not permitted on campus!  That and that there were no grouping for writing or math put me off of the school.  Another school only used workbooks for the kids to learn - it was a very non-creative environment.  Another one had a super high percentage of handicapped and disabled children who needed diapering and feeding care. None of the schools had groupings for writing and math, only reading...

So when we were thinking about what school to have our son attend we started hearing about Waldorf.  There were three times we learned about it, let's see if I can remember any of them.  The last was a notice at a garage sale telling about the Waldorf Open House. I will think to see if I can remember the other ways.  

Anyway, Waldorf seemed perfect as it was so arts and craftsy - the opposite of what my husband and I could offer our son.  He started in a kindergarten program.  Before school started I missed hearing that the kids were supposed to wear different colors on different days of the week.  We had red, yellow, and green shirts, but needed orange and purple. So that first day after leaving our son off I went to the store to get some white t-shirts and fabric paint - so we could decorate a shirt together.  But I got rear ended that afternoon, so was late with picked our son up.  One mother stayed on the playground with my son and her son and they played together.  I will always remember how wonderfully kind that was for her to do.

The four of us spent many hours together after school during that year.  Her husband was living in their native country, so she had lots of time to share with us.  We would take the boys to so many places - it was always fun!  My husband was working all the time so he didn't miss us at all...  I cried when she and her son moved back to be with the husband.  They wanted their son to live in their country and learn that language.  I caught her at a time when she needed company too, as we had met her just after her husband had left to work in the family business.

We have seen each other a handful of times since then.  Here, in Boston and Buffalo, and in their country two times!  I always feel like we just start up where were left off even though we have not done a good job of keeping in touch in between visits.

Her son is now a dentist working at the university where he did his training.

The last time I saw her was in 2015 at the beginning of my wonderful drive across the country with my Swedish friend. The first friend's son was starting dental school in Buffalo so we drove from Boston to her and stayed a few days.  We went to Niagara Falls, did a self-guided architectural walking tour of  Buffalo, the Teddy Roosevelt Inauguration House Museum, had Buffalo Wings, and ice cream and sponge candy at an old fashioned classic ice cream parlor (Fowler's?), (pretty sure we went to the Modern Art Museum).  Chatted, shared thoughts and feelings.  It was a great beginning of the driving trip.

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At Waldorf the kindergarteners and teachers make lunch together every day.  I found the recipe booklet while going thru a box so will write them down here so they are handy!  While typing I searched the web to be sure of the bread recipe and discovered that different schools have different recipes for their schools.  Makes sense, but I thought all these years the schools all did the same thing...

Monday - Violet Day - Rice Cereal

(For 25-30 children)

3 c sweet brown rice - cover with 1.5 inch water

Cook until tender (watch pot and stir often) The school had a heat disperser the grains didn't burn.

Sprinkle with gomasio (sesame salt) or sweeten with honey.

Tuesday - Red Day - Bread

1.  Sponge: Combine and set aside, 1/4 c water, 2 T yeast and 1/4 t maple syrup

2. Combine 1/4 c oil, 1/2 c maple syrup, 1/5 t salt and 2 c water

Add 1 & 2 together, add 1.5 c flour, stir 200 times and then let rest 5 - 10 min.  Add 4 c whole wheat flour (okay to sub 1/2 c oats for 1/2 c flour) Knead, add flour as needed.  Shape and place on oiled pan.  Bake in 325 degree oven for 20 min for rolls, 45 min for a loaf.

I'm not sure now if the kids only had bread on this day.  I'm remembering they all had baskets for their lunch and how I had to look for metal bowls and cups for him to use.  I made cloth napkins and a cover for the basket.  I still have the napkins and one of the baskets - now holding hand towels.  My favorite napkin was made with red and white checkers, but it had ants printed on it so they were crawling around.  Anyway, maybe these recipes are for a mid-morning or afternoon treat, not a full lunch.

Wednesday - Yellow Day - Apple-Millet Cereal

Serves 25-30 children

2.25 c millet

6 - 8 c water (or apple juice)

5 - 7 apples, cut up

2 t cinnamon

Cover with water, add more as needed.  Cook until tender - around 20 minutes.

Perhaps serve with maple syrup.

Thursday - Orange Day - Barley Soup

For 25-30 children

1 onion

3 carrots, chopped

3 c barley

1/2 c tamari

1 T parsley

1 T oregano

2 quarts water

Chop onion, saute in oil until soft.

Add remaining ingredients.

Cook until barley is tender.

This was our son's favorite.  A few times that year they asked me to have him bring in a few carrots or apples to use.

Friday - Green Day - Rye Cereal

6 c rye flakes

1.5 t salt

12 c water

Cook until tender. 

Serve with maple syrup and bananas or honey.

Note: 3 cups rye and 6 cups water for 11 to 12 children.


Birthday Cake

For our son's birthday the teacher made a cake and decorated it with beautiful orange nasturtium flowers they picked from their hillside.  I'd never had them before, they added a fresh and peppery taste to the cake. They must have had this cake many times during the year, but it felt special for us and our son to have it to celebrate his birthday.

Applesauce "Birthday" Cake

3.25 c whole wheat pastry flour

1.5 t baking soda

1.5 t cinnamon

3/4 c butter

1 c maple syrup 

1/2 c molasses or honey

1 egg

1.5 c applesauce

Combine dry ingredients.  Cut in the butter.  add rest of ingredients, Beat well.  Bake at 350 degrees for around 1 hour.

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Compared to our lives, there was a lot of religion in Waldorf, but we felt it wasn't a religious school. I'm looking over this verse and recipe booklet.  Ah well. It's good to be good to each other and ourselves. Here are a few poems/verses the kids recited. I don't remember them all, but do remember I thought it was sweet the way they added to the order of the day, the rituals, the community, and the memories.


Verse of Anticipation

When I have said my evening prayer, 

and my clothes are folded on the chair, 

when Mother switches out the light, 

I'll still be ___ years old tonight!  

But at the break of day, 

before the children rise and play, 

before the darkness turns to gold, 

Then I'll be ___ years old.


Birthday Verse

In heaven shines a golden star

An Angel lead me from afar

From heaven on high unto the earth

And brought me to my house of birth.


Birthday Song

We wish you a happy birthday

a joyous and celebrated birthday

To our friend _____

May you have a long, long life


Candle Lighting

I can light a candle

God can light a star

Both of them are helpful

Shining where they are


Candle Snuffing

Candlelight shining bright

Thank you for your loving light

Good night


Good-bye Verse

Our work, our play, our song

In us becomes a light

We carry it along

Until the stars shine thru the night

To God we bring it all

Answering his call.


Good-bye Song

Good-bye now, Good-bye now.

We leave you now 

And home we go.


Good-bye now, Good-bye now.

Good-bye to all of you.


It's time to go or we'll be late.

Let Martin lead us to the gate


Good-bye now, Good-bye now.

Good-bye to all of you.


Come Out and Play

Bright is the day

The birds are all singing

The flowers are gay.


Stretching up, oh, so high

Trying to reach the sky


Come Out and Play!


Bright is the day

The birds are all singing

The flowers are gay.


Wash Hands

Wash hands wash

The men have gone to plow.

Now's the time to wash your hands

So wash your hands now


Snack Blessing

Earth who gives to us this food,

Sun who makes it ripe and good,

Dear Earth, Dear Sun, by you we live

Our loving thanks to you we give

Amen

Join hands, join hands, join hands.

Blessings on our food.


Lunch Blessing

Before the flour, the mill

Before the mill, the grain

Before the grain, the earth, the sun, the rain

The beauty of God's will.

Join hands, join hands, join hands

Blessings on our food.


Morning Verse

To Earth I come to greet the light, to greet the Sun

The stones that rest

The plants that grow

The beasts that run


To greet all people who walk and work and will

Love God in all

Then God greets me, in all I do

And you and I and God are one.


Morning has come

Night is away

Rise with the sun

And welcome the day!


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There is more to remember about those Waldorf days, but I will save that for later.  Going to get ingredients for barley soup now!


2 comments:

  1. What beautiful memories. Thanks for sharing. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to bring those to our current schools?

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    1. Yes! Would be nice for all kiddos to experience.

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